October Field Trips

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Hanna and her BFF Canryn on a twin playdate.

I even had to style their hair the same.

Our Warrior walk advocating for NAMI.

My Capital to Coast Relay with 12 of my fellow mommies all running to honor and Live Like Trevor Searle who passed away at 17years old last April.  Between all 12 of us there were 47 kids left at home with their daddies.

Trevor's momma Stephanie in the middle wearing yellow.

Trevor's parents, Ryan and Stephanie running in Trevor's honor.  It was very touching. 

Running my last 7.8 mile stretch (total 21miles) in the hot Corpus Christy heat.  Can you say sweating much?

Getting goofy from exhaustion. But loving the wild flowers at sunrise.

Refueling at the grocery store.

Finishing 32 hours later with the fastest time for a all women's team.

In order of our relay leg.  This was a special moment.  So glad that I got to be part of it.

Hayden and Hanna's Rise school field trip.  It was a blast!

Good thing Hayden's teacher is strong enough to help him out.  He loved it!

Hanna is a strong monkey to do it all on her own.

This girl can climb anything.

After the field trip we made a stop to pick up our pumpkins.

Here is a sneak peak at the prototype of Hayden's Thomas the Train Wheelchair costume.  It was much harder than I expected but worth it for sure.  He loves it and will get to use it 3 times.

Hanna is of course Rapunzel with the beautiful wig that she got at Disneyland.

This was our early Halloween event at Ronald McDonald house for Spina Bifida Families.

Hayden and his BFF Josiah with Buz in the background.

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1st Day of School, 1st Big Boy Bed & visit with Trigg cousins

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Hayden tried out his first big boy bed and did great sleeping through the night with no pacifier/binki all by himself.  Hanna was begging to sleep there too.  Since he now has bunk beds, we got the kind where Hanna can't climb the ladder as it is put away at the top.

We traveled to Dallas the first of the month to meet up with cousins Tayler and McCarley.  Hayden hadn't seen his cousins since he was a baby visiting Albuquerque.  We got to play with the cousins for a few hours in the aquarium and the merry go round before we all headed home on our long drives.  It wasn't long enough but the best we could do.  We also got to stay at my cousin's home overnight.  It was a cousin visit trip.

 Tayler, McCarley, Hayden and Hanna.  Hanna and McCarley are only 3 months apart but several miles apart.

 The kids were so excited for their first day of school.  The new school is for special needs kids and their siblings.  Rise School Austin is better than we imagined.  We think all our SB preschool friends kids should have a school like this.  There are several in the country and we encourage you to check out their site.

They loved it!  Hanna's teacher is Miss Glass, just like the Fancy Nancy books!!!  She thinks she is so fancy too.

 Hayden's teacher is Mr. "D".  He is a really cool tough guy who loves kids.  Hayden is doing great there and his speech and activity level is improving every day.

Trying out new wheels

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This is one of the biggest purchase decisions we have had to make for Hayden.  So many things to consider.  We will have to get a new vehicle, change all our doorways and many more things.  But most of all we have to find the best fit for him to last him several years.  We haven't made up or mind just yet, but the kids are sure having a good time trying them out!

This one is called the Tiger Cub

This one is called Ottoboc

trying offroading

National Spina Bifida Convention and Disneyland

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I am about to begin to post our most memorable family vacation photos of all time.  Last week we had the great pleasure of attending our first national  Spina Bifida Association convention that also happened to take place at the Disneyland hotel.  It was our first trip to Disneyland was well.  

It was a wonderful trip full of positive emotions.  However, checking into the hotel and being among so many people in AFOs, arm crutches and wheelchairs was unexpectedly a bit overwhelming.  I wasn't expecting to feel that way.  

The best that I can explain it is that each day has brought greater understanding and peace while working within Hayden's abilities.  I have worked hard to stay in the current moment and not worry about what Hayden's future physical difficulties may be.  Then all of a sudden, I was catapulted to forseeing him as one the many brave young adults that we were meeting.  I had to work hard to taking that step back and give myself that little coach pep-talk about having faith that all the therapies we do will be beneficial and that I can not place limits on his individual potential.

We met some of the greatest families on Earth at the "happiest" place on Earth.  For nearly 3 years we have been in communication with other families from around the country that have experienced and have walked the path that we are walking.  They have been our greatest comforters, knowledge centers and inspiration along this journey.  They tell us things no doctor has been able to, such as the power in the joy these children bring into our lives and their limitless abilities.

Scott and I took turns taking care of the kids while each of us attended a day at the conference.  The third day was my birthday, so we spent our time together as a family.  There was no good way to get everything we wanted to do crammed into an 8 hour day.  While we wanted to spend more time with the other moms and dads chatting, our kids still needed our attention. 

The conference topics that were my favorite were the discussion on the results of the MOMs fetal surgery study that we partially participated in (we were one of the 299 people over the course of 7 years).  The lead researcher Dr. Adzick presented.  My second favorite part was the parent-to-parent forum chat.  We all got to meet face to face for the first time.  The second day, Scott participated with some other dads and attended various classes that they thought were beneficial.

Our main goal with our kids was to put them first, since they were the reason were there.  So we went full throttle at  Disneyland.  Disney was wonderful to those in wheelchairs and/or disabled.  We rode every ride that we could with the exception of Indiana Jones and some rides twice because we didn't have to wait in lines.  Hanna had many favorites.  Her first ride was Space Mountain.  She loved the roller coasters.  Hayden was a bit worn out and scared by everything that was dark indoors but he took it for the team.  By the last day, we were so tired even Hanna wanted to go home.  We are glad to be home and cherish our memories.

God bless all the families we met at the Spina Bifida convention and Disneyland for making it easy and fun for those in wheelchairs.